Before it's too late

I know exactly where this is going. And it's frustrating, because I'll probably wind up doing absolutely nothing to stop it. Because I'm impulsive and in-the-moment. And the moment is what feels good. The moment is what makes me think that things may turn out differently.

But take a step back. Look at the bigger patterns, the larger picture. Is this really that unlike any other time? What is really different? So he drove a few hours to see me. The guy hasn't gotten laid in two years...he'd probably drive across the country if he thought he was going to get fucked.

And yeah, I am a bit of a tease. So sue me. If that's what it takes to get his attention...but then I suppose I really have no reason at all to complain that that's all they ever want of me. That's all I really let them expect.

But guys, here's a hint. If you are genuinely into a girl and genuinely like her, don't tell her she's convenient. Even if you're just kidding. Especially if that girl is someone like me, who has heard that more than any girl should.